DJ Kulet, a popular Nigerian disc jockey, has shared a deeply personal account to educate the public on recognising and addressing abuse.
Her statement aims to create awareness about the dangers of unchecked misconduct and the importance of societal vigilance and accountability.
In her message, DJ Kulet disassociated herself from her ex-husband, Ohis Emmanuel (known as Benjamin), due to his actions, which she described as “egregious and reprehensible.”
She cited evidence of repeated infidelity and, most alarmingly, a prolonged case of abuse involving a 13-year-old minor in their home over six months.
Despite earlier forgiving her ex-husband when he blamed external influences for his behaviour, further investigations uncovered a disturbing pattern.
A video confession made on December 28, 2024, revealed that Emmanuel had also molested his 20-year-old cousin, leading to health complications, as well as her friend.
DJ Kulet also highlighted the impact of living with such behaviour during their brief marriage of less than eight months, during which she treated infections three times.
She described her journey as not just a survivor but also an advocate who felt compelled to speak out and protect others from similar harm.
“Education and awareness are key,” she said.
“We must remain vigilant, expose abusers, and hold them accountable for their actions. Protecting others begins with recognising and addressing such behaviour in our communities.”
Read full statement below.
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I, DJ KULET, am publicly disassociating myself from my ex-husband, Ohis Emmanuel (aka Benjamin), due to his egregious and reprehensible actions.
Despite overwhelming evidence (including chats, photos, videos, and voice notes) of his infidelity, he has refused to change his ways. The final straw was the shocking discovery of his prolonged $£xua!!!! abuse of a 13-year-old m!n0r, which occurred under my roof for six months.
Previously, I had forgiven him after he shifted the blame for his infidelity to external influences, unaware of the extent of his abus€. Further investigation, including a video confession on December 28th, 2024, revealed that he had also mol€$+€ddd his 20-year-old cousin, resulting in her contracting an infection, as well as her friend.
His predatory behavior predominantly targets m!not$ and he continues to engage in infidelity with multiple women. In our short-lived marriage of less than 8 months, I have treated infections three times.
As a VICTIM myself, I feel compelled to expose individuals like him to protect others. I urge everyone to be vigilant and hold perpetrators accountable for their actions.”
